If you are anything like me when you fall in love you fall in love hard.   If you are still in love you with your ex-girlfriend and you desperately want to get back with her then here are 10 tips that I put together that worked for me when I got my ex-girlfriend back.

10.  If the breakup ended badly (argument) start damage control. You both could have said some things that were really hurtful.  In the heat of the moment people say things that they don’t mean.  After the initial break up replay over in your mind what was said and what things bothered you and what could have bothered her and start thinking of ways you could repair things.
9.  Do not come off as needy. Limit contact after the initial couple of days you definitely do not want to become annoying.   Possibly text her to let her know you are still thinking about her.
8.  Ask if you can become friends. In order to still be able to be close to your ex-girlfriend you have to become “friends”.  I know that is not what you want to hear but you have to somehow stay in her life and try to show her that she still has feelings for you.  If you end the relationship and never talk again how do you expect to get back together?
7.  Hang out with mutual friends. If you and your ex-girlfriend were together for a decent amount of time you both should have mutual friends.  In order to stay in touch and not grow apart suggest you hang out with your other friends with her.
6.  Capitalize on the time you have together. When you hang out with your ex-girlfriend, do not be mean but also do not be over nice.  You want to be the man that she fell in love with so try to act the same way you did when you first met.
5.  Understand what you did wrong and fix it. Ask for a face to face meeting (without mutual friends) after hanging out a couple of times and let her talk and really try to listen what went wrong and find out how you could possibly fix it.  Once you know what led up to the breakup you can then begin to start trying to fix the issues.
4. What to do if she says you will never be together again? Unless she absolutely hates your guts or you have totally screwed up parts 10-5 then you should be showing her how you have changed and remind her of the person she fell in love with.  She could say she wants to get back together (Success!), or she could possibly tell you that she just wants to be friends now and see what happens in the future (Partial Success).  However, if she does say that you two will never be back together then you have two options.  You can try to get through the pain and move on, or you could still be friends and try to bring up the subject again at a later date (after more persuasion).
3.  Flowers or Gifts. Girls love flowers and gifts that are unexpected.  You should send flowers on expected dates (birthdays, etc) but they have the most impact when they are out of the blue.  If you haven’t gotten back together you this is one tactic that has worked for me in the past.  As an added bonus you could actually ask her back out with the card that is sent with the gift or flowers.
2.  Places of Significance. If you still haven’t asked your ex-girlfriend back out because you can’t think of a way to do it then I suggest that you try to tug on her heart strings and be as sweet as you can be.  Women love romantic places, therefore take your ex-girlfriend back to a romantic place that has significance between you too and pop the question.
1.  Poems. Women love poems, especially poems that are original that you put a lot of effort into.  There is no other better way to express your love and try to get back with your ex-girlfriend then writing a poem.